It was a perfect blend of traditional and non traditional elements. We wanted an elegant yet simple, vintage theme. We had a memorial table, to honor grandparents that were no longer with us, and a unity tree ceremony. Kristopher has 2 children and it was very important to me to include them. We had a blending ceremony and I gave vows and gifts to the kids also. We had a pie variety instead of a cake. Then we had FUN, at a more intimate reception. It was just perfect for us and really showed the relationship we already had to all our family and friends.